{"id":2269,"date":"2021-10-25T09:43:43","date_gmt":"2021-10-25T16:43:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/?p=2269"},"modified":"2021-10-25T09:43:45","modified_gmt":"2021-10-25T16:43:45","slug":"diffuse-the-situation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/2021\/10\/25\/diffuse-the-situation\/","title":{"rendered":"Diffuse the Situation"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Defuse the situation
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The answer to rude behavior is not more rude behavior. Retribution doesn’t get you anywhere good, doesn’t create anything useful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

An insult in return for an insult is predictable and ineffective. You have the opportunity and the skill to be much more innovative and constructive than that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can be the person to rise above it. You can chart a new, more beneficial path.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Be the original and intentional person you are. Put forth a positive perspective rather than just reacting to a negative one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yes, someone else has said or done something objectionable. But do you really want to create additional incitement for doubling down on that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Be the strong one, the reasonable one, the one who defuses the situation. You’ll vastly improve the possibility that something good will come of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

— Ralph Marston<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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