{"id":493,"date":"2012-08-03T11:40:51","date_gmt":"2012-08-03T11:40:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mikeservis.com\/blog\/?p=493"},"modified":"2012-08-04T01:27:00","modified_gmt":"2012-08-04T01:27:00","slug":"493","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/2012\/08\/03\/493\/","title":{"rendered":"Getting Beyond Disappointment"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.mikeservis.com\/images\/disappointment.png?w=640\" alt=\"Beyond Disappointment\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Getting beyond disappointment<br \/>\n+++++++++++++++++++<\/p>\n<p>Life will disappoint you on a regular basis, in ways that are<br \/>\nbig and small. The way to get beyond each disappointment is<br \/>\nto get busy doing something positive and meaningful.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s easy to get caught up in assigning blame, or<br \/>\nspeculating on how things might have been different, or<br \/>\nfeeling anger and resentment. None of those things, however,<br \/>\nwill add any value to your life.<\/p>\n<p>Choose instead to let the disappointment make you stronger<br \/>\nand more positively determined. Acknowledge it, and then<br \/>\nstep forward from it with productive and meaningful action.<\/p>\n<p>When you feel like indulging in self-pity, take that as a<br \/>\nprompt to break free from the negative pattern. Use it as an<br \/>\nopportunity to initiate an improvement in your world.<\/p>\n<p>Disappointment is a fact of life, but it never has to weigh<br \/>\nyou down for very long. You can always decide to focus on<br \/>\nthe positive possibilities in the present moment instead of<br \/>\nthe shortcomings in the past.<\/p>\n<p>Make the smart choice, and live by intention rather than by<br \/>\nchance. Whatever may happen, use it as a starting point for<br \/>\nmaking life better.<\/p>\n<p>Ralph Marston<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Getting beyond disappointment +++++++++++++++++++ Life will disappoint you on a regular basis, in ways that are big and small. The way to get beyond each disappointment is to get busy doing something positive and meaningful. It&#8217;s easy to get caught &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/2012\/08\/03\/493\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2},"_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-493","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-journal"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/s1SD9H-493","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/493","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=493"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/493\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":496,"href":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/493\/revisions\/496"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=493"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=493"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=493"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}