{"id":552,"date":"2012-09-05T16:00:29","date_gmt":"2012-09-05T16:00:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mikeservis.com\/blog\/?p=552"},"modified":"2012-09-05T16:00:29","modified_gmt":"2012-09-05T16:00:29","slug":"re%c2%adlease-your%c2%adself-from-your-own-ex%c2%adpec%c2%adta%c2%adtions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/2012\/09\/05\/re%c2%adlease-your%c2%adself-from-your-own-ex%c2%adpec%c2%adta%c2%adtions\/","title":{"rendered":"Re\u00adlease your\u00adself from your own ex\u00adpec\u00adta\u00adtions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: 'Times New Roman';\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<h2><span style=\"font-family: 'Times New Roman';\">This is going to be hard for many peo\u00adple and yet one of the most free\u00ading things that you will ever ex\u00adpe\u00adri\u00adence. Stop ex\u00adpect\u00ading oth\u00aders to be\u00adhave dif\u00adfer\u00adently! Why?\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Times New Roman';\">Be\u00adcause you can\u00adnot con\u00adtrol other peo\u00adple\u2019s be\u00adhav\u00adior!<\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Times New Roman';\">\u00a0Pe<\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Times New Roman';\">riod! I don\u2019t care how hard you<\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Times New Roman';\">\u00a0try, the il\u00adlu\u00adsion that you can con\u00adtrol an\u00adother per\u00adson\u2019s be\u00adhav\u00adior is just that, an il\u00adlu\u00adsion. I don\u2019t care if the other per\u00adson is two years old or eighty-two years old, they choose to react to you, or a sit\u00adu\u00ada\u00adtion, all on their own. Now you can \u201cwish\u201d they be\u00adhave dif\u00adfer\u00adently, but do not ex\u00adpect it. The best thing you can do for your\u00adself is to ac\u00adcept other peo\u00adple\u2019s be\u00adhav\u00adior and the choices they make. You may not agree with them, you may even wish them to do things dif\u00adfer\u00adently, but ac\u00adcept it. Just as you would ap\u00adpre\u00adci\u00adate other peo\u00adple ac\u00adcept\u00ading the choices that you make.<\/span><\/h2>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is going to be hard for many peo\u00adple and yet one of the most free\u00ading things that you will ever ex\u00adpe\u00adri\u00adence. Stop ex\u00adpect\u00ading oth\u00aders to be\u00adhave dif\u00adfer\u00adently! Why?\u00a0Be\u00adcause you can\u00adnot con\u00adtrol other peo\u00adple\u2019s be\u00adhav\u00adior!\u00a0Period! I don\u2019t care how hard &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/2012\/09\/05\/re%c2%adlease-your%c2%adself-from-your-own-ex%c2%adpec%c2%adta%c2%adtions\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2},"_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-552","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ah-ha_moments"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p1SD9H-8U","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/552","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=552"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/552\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":553,"href":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/552\/revisions\/553"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=552"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=552"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mikeservis.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=552"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}